Chastity and relationships

chastity and relationships
chastity and relationships

Hello my locked ones! you know, I have all kinds of callers from all walks of life. Chastity is a very special favorite kink of mine, and the callers who love this fetish come all kinds of different backgrounds. I have some who are married, some with significant others and some on their own. I have some pets locked in metal, plastic, or silicone. It’s all uniquely tailored to fit your needs. But what about chastity and relationships?

That’s a hard one

Doh! OK, Homer, reel it in. Actually, can you imagine Homer locked up in chastity? That just made me smile. But this is about you, and a relationship while I have locked your penis away. How does that work? For some, very well. For others…it’s a challenge. It all depends on the circumstances.

If you are married and you are practicing chastity in secret, this can be a real challenge. I mean, if she ever snuggles up close to you in bed? She WILL notice something other then your penis being hard. lol Butt I do have several who are in this exact situation and do it successfully. But this is also telling in regards to what kind of relationship it is.

Female led relationship

My favorite kind! This is where she has the key, she determines when/if you get to orgasm. This is extreme teasing and chastity and I love it! This can lead to chastity and celibacy, but that is pretty hardcore. Butt as always, I would love to keep you locked up forever. Butt that’s just me.

If you have a partner open to being the female led, you are lucky. I would be happy to give her advice, if needed. you may also want to broach the subject first before unzipping your pants. If she was hoping for something else, you may scare her away. unless she’s like me. Then she would smile, laugh that devilish laugh and be the female lead.

chastity and relationships
chastity and relationships

 

Pass The Penis Fun For Chastity Boys

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Pass The Penis

To break up the monotony of the lonely trail of the chastity slave, I always create a program where you are taken out of the cage and passed around to several Mistresses, one after the other. Does that get your caged dick hard to the point of frustrating horniness? Yes? My intent! Just the other day my boy locked slave rob had a free window of time to play with some tease and orgasm denial with me and two other Mistresses. He came around to me last and I teased his cock and then locked him back up without an orgasm.

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Long Lock Up Amusements

This works best if you are caged after 30 days and start to get itchy. Cockteasing assignments such a strip club lap dances, lingerie shopping, sex toy shopping in a store with hot fetish clad ladies working the counter, and regular calls with Mistress taking that cock out for some stroke fun.

An Altar To Us

Big flattery to a Mistress that may shorten your sentence would be to make an altar to her with candles and flowers. Images are grabbed from her blog posts, printed out, and put together on some board. Stroking to her altar when allowed for stroking edge upon edge. Lucky boy!

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Locked up in chastity, now what will Mistress Meredith do with you?

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chastity Mistress

Well , my locked cocks, that’s a very good question! What would be your guess? If we have you locked up in a nice, tight fiting device, we have taken the necessary steps to get here. We have done a lock up program that got you ready and prepared for this. I know that it seems daunting, in spite of all the preparedness. But don’t lose faith, my chastity pet. you know we are here for you and it really was the best decision we made to lock that cock away. But the question still lingers: now that you are locked up in chastity , what will Mistress Meredith do with you?

Whatever I want

Oh, you saw that coming, didn’t you? Even tho’ you are not cuming. But that answer is a bit vague, I know. So lets go deeper. you have been a good submissive, good little obedient chastity wanna be and followed all the rules. We designed a perfect program for you and took care of those bad boy stroker boy habits you had gotten so comfortable with. I was really impressed with how well you fell into the chastity life.

Now you are cock locked and wondering what next? Well, we will still have sessions together. In fact, you will probably need me now, more then ever! I wont sugar coat this. It’s going to be hard…very HARD. When you see a hot girl go by and your mind starts to wander, you will have a quick reminder when you feel the pinch between your legs as that cock starts to grow.

Unleash the beast!

If you are dutiful, I will allow you out during our sessions to stroke. But no orgasms, after all this is chastity and chastity phone sex. I will monitor your strokes, your breathing and your excitement. Then back in the cage you go. you will adjust (uh hum) and pretty soon that chastity cage will be part of you and you will forget it there. We will have even more intense sessions of not getting out and servicing me, but that is a whole different blog.

I want your cock
I want your cock

In the meantime, stroker boys, Mistress Meredith wants your cock!

Orgasms for New Years? What your chastity Mistress says about that!

My gift for you!
My gift for you!

Did that happen, my locked ones? I think not! If anything, I may have given you a Xmas gift of coming, but that is not always a sure thing. It depends on the chastity pet and the long term chastity program or how well that pet is doing. So I did play Santa this year for some deserving pets. But giving out orgasms for New Years? I think not!

No orgasms for you!

After all, you are in a male chastity program, not a jack off club! If you got the gift of coming for Xmas, I know there is no way I would allowed another orgasm for New Years!  Nope. Not that soon after being allowed to have one for Xmas!

Nasty rumors

Must be some silly pet living in a fantasy. he he. But  in reality, my chastity pets know the real deal. It’s what they signed up for. A life of the ultimate denial. That penis is custom fit to a cage with a lock, just as it should be. A customized step up program is designed before actually locking you up full time in order to have you, your penis and your mental mind set accustomed to this new lifestyle.

It’s not just a game, but a commitment. This is not an easy one, either. Most likely you have been consumed with your cock and were nothing but a chronic masturbator. Or, perhaps your wife no longer wanted any thing to do with that, so you decided to make it concrete.

Whatever the reason…

I am more then happy to deny you and lock you up for male chastity and cock control!

The Birdlocked Chastity Device

This is a review on the Birdlocked chastity device by me and, of course, some boys I have had in it.

6 DIFFERENT DESIGNS

The Birlocked is a surgical silicone chastity device, with a variety of 6 different designs. Classic, mini (lol), maxi (oh, yes), pico (with small silicone spikes, ouch) pa model for pierced, and neo. Most order the classic, which can be a bad choice. Go to their site and look at the variety. It has expanded since the classic came out.

NOT FOR BIG BALLS

I had a real time boy whom I was training awhile back. The classic was a disaster because no matter how much I drained his balls, the classic would not fit over his big balls. It was a waste of money, and it was against my better judgement to buy this device. The boy owned a gym and was athletic. The Birdlocked is for athletic males because if it fits correctly, the device allows for maximum comfort in the gym.

GOOD FOR ATHLETES, HARD ON BALLS

Recently “r” had to remove his Birdlocked device because the ring was so tight, there was ball pain. “r” is a soccer player from Europe and is on the field at least 4 times a week. Not only was there ball pain, but there were abrasions to deal with, and had to go off of my program for awhile.

HAVE YOU USED A BIRDLOCKED?

If anyone out there has had good experiences with a Birdlocked, please comment. I’m curious to find out how the other selections have worked out. If it comes down to a choice of a cb device and a birdlocked, the cb wins out.

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The CB 6000 Review From A Chastity Slave’s Experience

Here is the complete cb review provided by my long term chastity boy who prefers to be anonymous. Rights have been given to me to post this essay and picture. Thank you XXX 🙂

A LITTLE HISTORY

The CB6000, and its little brother the CB6000s, are by far the most popular (by sales) and the most readily available of all male chastity devices. First introduced in 2007, the CB6000 series is the successor to the popular CB3000 cage line from the same company, A.L. Enterprises. Constructed entirely from plastics, this design’s popularity is due to its relatively low cost (about $150), almost universal size adjustment and wide distribution in local boutiques and mail order shops. These factors make it one of the best options available for those who are just “getting into” chastity. However, most men (including this author) who have been locked in the CB6000 for a week or more agree that there are better alternatives for long term confinement of the male equipment.

THE DESIGN

One of the innovations the CB6000 brought was its split ring design. The ring, or cuff as it’s sometimes called, fits around the victims cock and balls at the base of the pelvis. It comes with five differently ring sizes, from 1.5 inches to 2 inches, to accommodate most of the male populations anatomy. The cuff itself is made up of several pieces that enable it to be assembled around your equipment. This is preferable to the previous hinged ring design of the CB3000 since there is no hinge to irritate the skin or break. Additionally, the split ring doesn’t require the wearer to “squeeze through” a solid ring which some men find difficult. The split ring is closed by fitting together the sections of the appropriately sized ring and securing them in place with the provided guide pins. One note of caution here, you may want to shave “down there” before attempting to fasten the cuff together since it is very difficult to keep pubic hair out of the split ring’s closure points. Ouch! The cross section of the cuff is not round like its predecessor, but rather has a chamfered edge that holds its place better but also can chafe in long term wear.

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE 2 CAGES

With the cuff secured with its protruding guide pin, the cage fits over the penis and is secured to the pins with the supplied lock & key. The difference between the CB600 and CB6000s (short) is the length of the cage. The shorter version is more readily concealed under street clothing due to its reduced size. Either cage is constructed from two pieces of molded plastic welded together down the length. The seam of this weld causes irritations to some and is subject to breaking. Many users have described the unpleasant experience of having the cage split during extended wear. If the cage comes apart, the resulting sharp edges at the seams have the potential of being pressed into the penis. Double Ouch!

COMFORT

The cage is made of hard plastic with only a few vent holes. Thus, it prevents almost any stimulation of the males “sweet spot” making it very effective in preventing any form of pleasure until the keyholder permits. The most you will feel is an all too brief tingle as your cock moves within the cage. The hard plastic will thwart and attempted erection; a maddening sensation during the day and a somewhat painful experience while sleeping. At the penis tries to become erect, it pushes on the cage which, in turn, pulls on the cuff in a vain attempt to find room to grow. Since the cuff is locked behind the balls, they get pulled forward until there is no more room to stretch. The resulting effect is being like being awakened by someone pulling at your gonads. Groan! While standing urination is possible, getting the “holes to align” can be difficult at times lead to sitting as a safer option. The completely closed cage makes hygiene a challenge. This author found it best to complete immerse the entire cage, along with its contents, for effective cleaning.

THE BEGINNER’S CAGE

If you are new to chastity, the CB6000(s) is a good, low cost alternative for experimentation and occasional play. However for those serious about long term wear, custom fitted stainless steel is a better option.
PROS:
Affordable, readily available, fits (and constrains) most male anatomy
CONS:
Possibility of chaffing, can split, proper hygiene takes extra effort

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