My Chastity Contract

chastity contract
chastity contract

Hello, my locked ones! I felt it was the time we talked about commitment. Since your interest in the kink of chastity has grown over the last few months from fantasizing to reality, it’s time. Warning: you will discover that you will be very aroused by this assignment. You see, by creating a chastity contract, you will see that it strengthens our M/s bond. I can push your limits (as if I don’t already!) and have you under me.

So, here is your Assignment…

Contract of Chastity

Write up a chastity contract, in your words, that gives me full ownership of your orgasms, stroking privileges and chastity devices. The agreement will be binding. It can not be canceled with out fulfilling the canceling procedure as determined.

You must be prepared to fulfill all the instructions given to you. You will take an oath that you will allow your chastity Mistress to train you as set out in the program. The program will be customized during a session.

You will include some type of verbiage about informing your Mistress of any possible chance of escape. You will also add that you may not remove your device with out the permission of your Mistress. I think a good ending would be you are committed to long-term chastity.

So, something like Mistress will control all the forms of orgasms/or lack thereof. Mistress will keep sub informed of her goals and changes to the program, and to what he is to achieve. We both agree to no limits to the program.Full orgasms are not permitted. However, the sub may be released using milking.

Punishments may include: Butt plugged, vibrating butt plug under pants for an evening out, tied to the bed and brought to the edge but no orgasm, restrained and given 20 strokes with a riding crop, hand and ankle cuffed, on the belly, on the floor for minimum one hour.

Remember, this needs to be in your words and specific to you and I. Any questions? Good. Now get started and submit!


Chastity and erections

Chastity and erections
Chastity and erections

Hello, my locked ones! Recently I had a session with a chastity pet who cried shared how HARD it was being locked up in the cage all the time. To that I say…DUH. Seriously, what did you expect? But then, he said he could handle it mentally. That wasn’t the hard part he was talking about. He He. I know this is something you will just have to deal with and get used to. You will trust me. Chastity and erections are like Hillary and Trump: you they fight each other all day long

You will adjust

In more ways then one! Being locked in chastity means exactly that: your cock is locked, no matter what state it’s in, or tries to be in. It’s just the state of the union, the union of skin and steel, baby. It’s the American dream… a Chastity Mistress controlling your cock!

So your cock has a mind of it’s own, and it’s trying to rear its ugly head. No worries. Once it gets a feel for the tight squeeze afforded in his new home, he will learn to relax…don’t do it. Your chastity device will show him who’s boss when I am not around.

This is why you need to be caged

Your cock will adjust. You are in chastity. You have chosen this fetish for a reason. So acceptance is key. Ah, talking about the key…if you want me to use this key to your happiness then you need to earn it! Unless your cock is red and engorged bulging out of your cage, you don’t want out. Ah, this is why I love being a chastity Mistress!


Why are you in chastity?

Why are you in chastity?
Why are you in chastity?

Hello my locked ones! As your chastity Mistress I like to keep up on your activities or lack of some activities and check in on your progress. As I have said before, chastity is a great adventure and not for the weak willed types. It takes discipline, commitment and the ability to follow directions from your “keyholder” (we really don’t actually hold your keys, but we have better ways) to be a good chastity pet. So tell me: Why are you in chastity?

Are you a chronic masturbator?

That is one of the biggest reason my pets have for wanting to be in this fetish program. They need a quick fix and this seems to tame the savage beast. Typically, I am all about long term chastity,  so be prepared for that once we have you locked and unloaded!


you need someone (ME) to control your cock! I do admit, chastity and cock control do go hand in hand. But it’s my hand in your hand, not stroking, but snapping a nifty device on your cock, that now belongs to me.

But maybe it is something more then that? Male chastity is a deeply thought out mental kind of kink. Perhaps you feel you have prostituted yourself too much and need some kind of built in mechanism to keep you from you addictions. Or maybe you are involved a sexless marriage, so you use this to safeguard against any infidelity. Only you the know the reasons you are drawn to this confinement. I would love for you to share it with me!


Mental Chastity

Mental Chastity
Mental Chastity

It’s all in your head. Both of them. Now this may not be the kind of chastity blog that is traditional, but this is not about a traditional chastity method or device. I felt it necessary to explore this option. Necessary because some of you may experience this sometime, whether you intend to or not.

Let’s face it

There are circumstances beyond our control sometimes. ( airports, medical emergencies, family vacations, etc) So being locked up in a device can prove to be challenging. I understand these situations. I also understand if you are in a relationship, and your partner taps you for some intimate time, she trumps any device, man made or other. But once you commit to a mental cage, you must be extremely disciplined.

Mind Like a Steel Trap

This may be one of the toughest forms of chastity there is. This is not for the faint of heart or those weak in the knees or other body parts. No, this takes major restraint and control. This is the kind of chastity that truly inspires and impresses me. To have this kind of discipline is amazing! It also takes trust, as far as the Mistress/chastity pet relationship is concerned. As a Mistress, I have to be able to trust you are not cheating and staying in the “No stroke zone”.  As my pet, you have to know your temptations and how to avoid them.

Talk to Me

Sometimes a man just needs a woman to talk to.  A woman who will listen to him and let him explain his side of things, his views of the world, what he REALLY thinks about everything that he would never dare to say. Personally, all of that, while at the same time not feeling harshly judged, like a pervert, like an asshole….whatever the real world might think.  I can’t speak for all men of course…but once you have established this kind of communication it will help secure the bond and bring you closer to your Mistress. Being able to talk about your chastity fetish with someone who knows it inside and out will help you and will be one of the things you will love about being my pet.

Mental Chastity

What is it? Its being non-orgasmic without a cage. I love the word “chaste” and this is how I would describe you in mental chastity.  To not touch it….except for restroom and bathing.  And you know what ‘touch it’ means.  I’ve never been a big fan of mental chastity, just because of the sheer will power involved. You are so devoted you will not touch it.  If I want you to be a chaste male, you will be a chaste male.  I know it’s so hard not to touch it. But I want you to go through the motions of complete abstinence, fully, in my honor.

Your Security Blanket

It’s gone. That cage that kept your hands off is no longer attached.  But my ownership of you is now your security blanket. It is important to me that you remain chaste and not touch it, to not have orgasms. But cage or no cage,  you are my chastity slave.  And if it’s hard on you, well, too bad. You will do it anyway for me, your Mistress.

New to chastity

new to chastity
new to chastity

Hello my locked ones, and locked ones wanna be’s! Welcome to the world of orgasmic denial, discipline and control. If you have always wanted to try out this kink, now is as good as time as any! If not now, then when? I mean, why wait? Lets set up your program and get you ready to begin. When you first get locked up, it must be with me. This is why you have a chastity Mistress! you also need to get a mindset real quick in relationship to your cock and not stroking. Since you are new to chastity, these are things you will adapt to under my tutelage.

So you need to ask yourself if you are ready

If you are really ready, we need to talk about what type of chastity device fits you best. All things considered, like…budget, comfort and even relationship status. If you are married and can only wear it during work hours, etc. If you can afford it, I love mature metal. If you need something cheaper and faster, the birdlock is good.

These are things we need to discuss. My preference is long term chastity, and that is pretty hardcore. Can you handle it?

Chastity and relationships

chastity and relationships
chastity and relationships

Hello my locked ones! you know, I have all kinds of callers from all walks of life. Chastity is a very special favorite kink of mine, and the callers who love this fetish come all kinds of different backgrounds. I have some who are married, some with significant others and some on their own. I have some pets locked in metal, plastic, or silicone. It’s all uniquely tailored to fit your needs. But what about chastity and relationships?

That’s a hard one

Doh! OK, Homer, reel it in. Actually, can you imagine Homer locked up in chastity? That just made me smile. But this is about you, and a relationship while I have locked your penis away. How does that work? For some, very well. For others…it’s a challenge. It all depends on the circumstances.

If you are married and you are practicing chastity in secret, this can be a real challenge. I mean, if she ever snuggles up close to you in bed? She WILL notice something other then your penis being hard. lol Butt I do have several who are in this exact situation and do it successfully. But this is also telling in regards to what kind of relationship it is.

Female led relationship

My favorite kind! This is where she has the key, she determines when/if you get to orgasm. This is extreme teasing and chastity and I love it! This can lead to chastity and celibacy, but that is pretty hardcore. Butt as always, I would love to keep you locked up forever. Butt that’s just me.

If you have a partner open to being the female led, you are lucky. I would be happy to give her advice, if needed. you may also want to broach the subject first before unzipping your pants. If she was hoping for something else, you may scare her away. unless she’s like me. Then she would smile, laugh that devilish laugh and be the female lead.

chastity and relationships
chastity and relationships


Chastity Orgasms

orgasms and chastity
chastity orgasms

Hello my locked ones. This may seem like the unthinkable for a blog post, let alone a chastity program. But I do believe in rewarding those who work hard and have proven themselves. I know I often tease my long term chastity callers with the promise of being locked up forever. I believe that can happen, but they may also be allowed an orgasm along the way. Every situation and program is different, but I see nothing wrong with being in chastity and orgasms rewarded every once in a while.

Good for you!

This is meant as in “good for you”, as in a pat on the back. Butt also good for you, as far as an orgasm is good for the health of your cock. So that is why I strongly recommend milkings every so many months. That helps to ensure a healthy prostate.

So recently I had a chastity pet who has not had an orgasm since March. That doesn’t seem like a long time, but it was March of 2015!!!! That is impressive, isnt it?! Hell yes! Now this particular pet does not really respond well to milkings, so I thought it was about time to take matters into my own hands and give this deserving pet a well earned orgasm!

So even though I am a chastity Mistress, I still can enjoy allowing an orgasm! Especially when it’s been over a year, in nice long term denial because after all, chastity makes the heart grow fonder!

Good job, rogue! And well deserved! Very Impressive!

Now void!
Now void!

Now you’ll just have to wait another year to have that

screaming orgasm! It’s not exactly forever, but I can live with

you will be in chastity forever and granted an orgasm once a

year! Maybe more with good behavior? NAH

Long Term Chastity by Misstress Meredith



Hello my pets,  my locked cocks! Some of my wanna be’s  are curious about how long they can expect to be in Chastity. I myself like the answer “forever” but I know that we need to be more realistic. But I am a chastity Mistress, and Queen of long term chastity! I will design a program just for you, and in the beginning it will seem like baby steps. The reason being, before locking you in chastity for more than a few hours, you need to be accustomed to wearing a chastity device, there needs to be a breaking in period.

Break it in

I mean, you can’t expect to put on a device for the first time and discover a perfect comfortable fit. It takes a while to adjust, both physically and mentally. Wearing it a few hours each evening when home from work is a good way to become accustomed to wearing a chastity device. As your chastity Mistress I will temper the excitement of fantasy with the necessities of reality.

When you are starting out with male chastity it’s good to have a step up program. I think telling you that you’ll be locked for 6 months is just too much and overwhelming. It makes the goal seem impossible, therefore the possibility of quitting is great. But I believe it is good to talk about other locked cocks who are doing very well after months and months of denial. It proves long term chastity is not just a myth.

How long can you go?

I have callers who have made it a year without an orgasm! Some even longer! Now, this does not mean we don’t allow milkings because that, my locked ones, is a necessity for the long term health of long term orgasm denial. So, this Mistress guides your stroking and schedules periodic milkings. This allows you to feel confident that you can remain in your cage as long as possible.

Like, you know…FOREVER


Why does chastity excite me?

Why does chastity excite me
Why does chastity excite me

Recently a caller asked me “just what about chastity excites you?” and I answered without hesitation “The control”. The idea that I hold your desires in my hand, which I can lock or unlock with the key. The concept of withholding orgasms as a show of devotion to your chastity Mistress is the ultimate gift. Who would not relish that power? Of course that excites me!

Chivalry is Dead

As far as archaic thoughts of the knight riding off with key in hand as his fair maiden waits in the castle for his return. ~snap out of that!~ No, chastity now is much more modern, efficient and sexy. Especially when it’s the Mistress (replacing the fair maiden) locking up the main cock.


Stop looking at my picture and focus on what I am about to say. When you are in chastity, you are much more focused. The thought off stroking all the time has been redirected elsewhere, like pleasing your Mistress. you are no longer consumed with your cock since access is denied.

Pussy Pleasure

One of my very favorite reasons to be excited about chastity. Imagine you are all locked up and I send you right between my legs. BUT you are not allowed to get hard.

That’s right… this is not about you. It’s about me. It forces you to completely get lost in my pussy. I have your undivided attention. No thought about your hard cock, wanting to stroke it and cum. Nope. This is about your tongue caressing every fold, every soft petal and demonstrating just how well you know and love your chastity Mistress.

Now you know why chastity excites me. Are you ready for lock up?

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Does submission make you weak?

Does submission make you weak?
Does submission make you weak?

Have you wondered about this, my locked ones? I believe its just the opposite. I believe it takes a very strong person to be denied for any period of time. To show some restraint and discipline takes a strong person. Just because you may be a bit submissive in the bedroom,  doesn’t mean you cant be masculine, sexy, and strong outside of the bedroom and locked in everyday life. But what do you think: Does submission make you weak?

There is a difference between being sexually submissive and weak

What is funny is that I never really considered my locked ones as weak. Or even submissive. But yes, it is submissive, but I think it is the act alone that is submissive. To give up your orgasms is a powerful thing. Why do you do this? Oh, so many reasons! Too many to list here. But I believe it is personal and individual to each one of my callers. It also has to do with one important thing:


you trust me implicitly… I know this, and do not take it lightly. I will never take it for granted. It is an integral part of this equation. you are handing over a very intimate part of your self, your life, your sexuality. you have to trust me to take care of this endowment. Trust me to do what is best.

Do you need a release from work, from the stress and pressures of being in charge, being the decision maker? This is why some venture into submission and chastity. Other’s may be chronic masturbater, consumed with themselves so much that they need someone else to manage them and help focus on other things.

Submission is not weakness. Submission involves your trusting me at your most vulnerable time and place. Submission is honoring me with your mind, body and soul.