Orgasms for New Years? What your chastity Mistress says about that!

My gift for you!
My gift for you!

Did that happen, my locked ones? I think not! If anything, I may have given you a Xmas gift of coming, but that is not always a sure thing. It depends on the chastity pet and the long term chastity program or how well that pet is doing. So I did play Santa this year for some deserving pets. But giving out orgasms for New Years? I think not!

No orgasms for you!

After all, you are in a male chastity program, not a jack off club! If you got the gift of coming for Xmas, I know there is no way I would allowed another orgasm for New Years!  Nope. Not that soon after being allowed to have one for Xmas!

Nasty rumors

Must be some silly pet living in a fantasy. he he. But  in reality, my chastity pets know the real deal. It’s what they signed up for. A life of the ultimate denial. That penis is custom fit to a cage with a lock, just as it should be. A customized step up program is designed before actually locking you up full time in order to have you, your penis and your mental mind set accustomed to this new lifestyle.

It’s not just a game, but a commitment. This is not an easy one, either. Most likely you have been consumed with your cock and were nothing but a chronic masturbator. Or, perhaps your wife no longer wanted any thing to do with that, so you decided to make it concrete.

Whatever the reason…

I am more then happy to deny you and lock you up for male chastity and cock control!

Why Mistress Meredith loves chastity


Yes, what better way to have it then with a  chastity device that prevents your stroking and orgasms! Some of you cannot be trusted to be left to your own devices, so I take care of that by putting you in one! This way I can control when and if for a whole plethora of things! Like stroking (that’s a big “if”) and coming (a huge “if”) and how long in-between! But what it really all boils down to is taking your cock out of your hands and putting it in to mine! This is why your Mistress loves chastity!

Chastity excites me!
Chastity excites me!

Off your shoulders!

The burden is gone, the stress has vanished. For the chronic masturbator, that is huge! (Even if your cock is not!) It no longer consumes you 24/7. I know you used to plan your day around stroking. Now I plan your day and you can earn some stroking rights. How? That depends on the chastity program we have customized for you. Some are allowed stroking privileges, other’s are not. Some are hard core chastity, some are wanna be’s. I love to train my stroker boys for chastity. They become so willing to serve, so happy to please their Mistress.

There is an old saying….

Control the cock, control the man. I have found that to be true. After an orgasm, a typical male becomes cocky and aloof. A few days and he is back to normal. But when a male’s cock is caged, he becomes submissive and pliable. Just the way he was meant to be!

A Chastity Christmas Gift from Mistress Meredith


Hello, my chastity pets! How are you, my locked ones? I know it’s that time of year when giving is the norm, and your Mistress Meredith is no exception to that rule. I am a giver and receiver. But some hard core chastity phone sex Mistresses may not allow a pet out, ever, but I always do for Christmas. What better gift? Now just because I let them out does not necessarily mean they will be granted an orgasm. So is that really such a great gift? ~wink~

The Ultimate Gift

It is an orgasm. Let’s face it, it is. It’s the gift that keeps on giving! But when you are a locked chastity pet in a chastity program, you are lucky to get unlocked at all, and almost never an orgasm! I usually do like to unlock for very special occasions, like once a year for xmas and birthday. I am nice like that. But in between times, we need to take good care of the prostate. So milkings are a must for those in long term lock down.

I Am No Grinch This Christmas

Nope. I won’t steal a special gift. I will definitely let you out for some stroking time. You will be allowed to touch it, fondle it and stroke. For some, if they have been especially nice, they will get the ultimate gift, a mind blowing orgasm! As your chastity Mistress, I love how well disciplined you have been. I believe it should rewarded! So no blue ball Christmas for you. Your welcum.


The MC011 Chastity Device By DHGate


A Chastity Pet Speaks

Yes, I know I haven’t posted forever, but here I am now. I wanted to report on a chastity device that I’m excited about, discovered by sissy donna who is a sissy chastity pet of mine. It seems the pet got a little chubby after retirement, and her Neo Steel chastity device was too tight for comfort. The key was frozen outside in a 5 gallon jug, so she needed patience to retrieve the key, as there is no microwave large enough. Hahaha. Anyways, the rest of the story is on my blog. We managed to get her unlocked and back into the mature metal, keys frozen again. She did some research and came up with the MC011.

What It Is

The device looks just like a Neo Steel, except it is fully adjustable and comes with a butt plug attachment and a catheter (ouch!). It also has 2 thigh cuffs, comes in pink, blue, and black. Since it is fully adjustable, you can get fat or slim down with no problem. It is escape proof an can only be used with a metal key. The key will have to be in your person, so since we are in the midst of a cold winter (except for California of course), a 5 gallon water jug frozen outside with keys is the perfect solution. However you like to do it. You can also choose the option of an online key holding site like chastitylocked which allows your Mistress to interact with the program. At any rate, this is a device yet to be reviewed, but it will be once it is on sissy donna. Check out this pretty device at DHgate and let me know what you think. In the meantime, consider a juicy hot orgasm denial program with Ms Meredith and I. Since our schedules are different, you will never be alone!

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Mental Chastity

mentally caged
mentally caged

It’s all in your head. Both of them. Now this may not be the kind of chastity blog that is traditional, but this is not about a traditional chastity method or device. I felt it necessary to explore this option. Necessary because some of you may experience this sometime, whether you intend to or not. Let’s face it, there are circumstances beyond our control sometimes. ( airports, medical emergencies, family vacations, etc) So being locked up in a device can prove to be challenging. I understand these situations. I also understand if you are in a relationship, and your partner taps you for some intimate time, she trumps any device, man made or other. But once you commit to a mental cage, you must be extremely disciplined.

Mind Like a Steel Trap

This may be one of the toughest forms of chastity there is. This is not for the faint of heart or those weak in the knees or other body parts. No, this takes major restraint and control. This is the kind of chastity that truly inspires and impresses me. To have this kind of discipline is amazing! It also takes trust, as far as the Mistress/chastity pet relationship is concerned. As a Mistress, I have to be able to trust you are not cheating and staying in the “No stroke zone”.  As my pet, you have to know your temptations and how to avoid them.

Talk to Me

Sometimes a man just needs a woman to talk to.  A woman who will listen to him and let him explain his side of things, his views of the world, what he REALLY thinks about everything that he would never dare to say. Personally, all of that, while at the same time not feeling harshly judged, like a pervert, like an asshole….whatever the real world might think.  I can’t speak for all men of course…but once you have established this kind of communication it will help secure the bond and bring you closer to your Mistress. Being able to talk about your chastity fetish with someone who knows it inside and out will help you and will be one of the things you will love about being my pet.

Mental Chastity

What is it? Its being non-orgasmic without a cage. I love the word “chaste” and this is how I would describe you in mental chastity.  To not touch it….except for restroom and bathing.  And you know what ‘touch it’ means.  I’ve never been a big fan of mental chastity, just because of the sheer will power involved. You are so devoted you will not touch it.  If I want you to be a chaste male, you will be a chaste male.  I know it’s so hard not to touch it. But I want you to go through the motions of complete abstinence, fully, in my honor.

Your Security Blanket

It’s gone. That cage that kept your hands off is no longer attached.  But my ownership of you is now your security blanket. It is important to me that you remain chaste and not touch it, to not have orgasms. But cage or no cage,  you are my chastity slave.  And if it’s hard on you, well, too bad. You will do it anyway for me, your Mistress.

Mike’s Spikes – Ouch!

Keyed, indeed!
Keyed, indeed!

Mike’s Spikes – If You Like Torture

I just stumbled upon a steel, spikey device used for ball stretching, cbt, and chastity. Check out Mike’s Spikes on the JTStockroom site. I gave it a write up on my personal blog, and this is an absolute award winner. I do not trust it as a chastity device however. Chastity cheating would be easy with this because much of the shaft would be exposed. I do love the fact that some of the spikes can be removed. Spikes come in sharp and blunted.

A Time Share Slut

Ms. Meredith and I have been sharing sissy Vanessa, and it works out just fine, as I’m more of a day girl and Ms M prefers nights. This little slut is now locked in a Pico device for as long as she can stand it. On Saturday we and 2 other Mistresses humiliated her on cam, watching her pogo on her dildo collection. Lately, Saturday mornings have been a blast.

Holy Trainer Don’t Bother

I have a captivity slave who gave a thumbs down on The Holy Trainer. It is nothing more than a glorified CB device which costs more, including shipping from Switzerland. One can slip out of the cage and chastity cheat with little effort. Don’t waste your hard earned money on this one.

Mistress Cassandra


The Holy Trainer

A Device To Love

Holy Trainer! Give their site a view. I’ve read some good reviews on this device, and it’s a more comfortable choice of all the silicon based cock locks. Actually, it is bio sourced resin which is used in electronics and aviation. This cage heats up to your body temperature and caresses you so devilishly! This is a great cage for the sportsman who needs maximum comfort and may even protect if boy gets accidentally kicked in the balls, lol. I jest, of course. Go to their website for more info. they have videos, reviews and tips. Here is a hygiene tip: Do you own a douche bag or an enema bag? Are you the douche bag? At any rate, fill the bag with soapy solution and put the tubes into the air holes, slits, holes of your device and blast away for maximum clean!

Wanted: Your Lock Down Ideas

My boi donna is not on a program right now and just doing it on her own. Emails are sent daily on her progress. Be sure to check my blog on her lock box ideas. Inside her lock box: 4 keys. Two for her locked collar, and 2 for her metal chastity cage.

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Be sure to maximize your pleasure with a 2 Chastity Mistress call with Ms Meredith and Ms Cassandra.

The Price of Chastity


Just what is the price of chastity? Well, there are so many different categories in regard to this question. First off, the financial aspect is certainly one to consider. I am a big fan of the steel cages, like the custom made ones from mature metal. But they are a bit pricey. To me, worth every cent! But you can opt for the plastic device, like the cb6000. I have seen them on amazon for $40-$50, so that may be something to consider before you invest in the man of steel.

No stroke zone

Are you ready to enter it? That is part of the price you pay also; loss of orgasms. Once you commit to a chaste life, it means you are giving up orgasms. Period. It means your chronic masturbating days are over. Fini! It means you will have to find something else to occupy your time, time that was once dedicated to stroking.

Emotional Toll

Can you handle it? Your head (the one you reason with, silly) will need to accept this new way of life. You may have doubts, you may question yourself, which is natural. Just be careful not to let the doubting voice overpower your desire to lead a life of chastity. I have several who started out with doubt and are now safely locked away and have been for months. So, you too can do this!


That is what it takes. A dedicated drive to maintain your path. Your path to being in lock down for your Mistress Meredith and Mistress Cassandra. Just put your orgasms in our capable hands, and we will lock them up for a long, long time. How does forever sound?

The Houdini Chastity Device

The Houdini chastity device is reviewed by fuckie fag boi, my longest chastity trained boi. Not long by any means in the cock department, but the longest trained boi. Here goes!

3rd review by fuckie : The Houdini

Popular, but basic metal cage


Unusual,  but simple design, a basic piece of plumbing tubing welded to a single cock cuff.

The cuff closes on a ratchet exactly like a one half of a pair of hand cuffs.

The cuff is locked shut with a small spindly key.


Simple design makes it easy to put on.

Not expensive.

The device looks quite good when it is on(it would look heaps better if they had used polished  stainless steel instead of a cheap metal, and then it wouldn’t have rusted! See “Security”.)



This is not an expensive device relatively speaking (about$200 from the stockroom), although it seems expensive considering its design and the materials used.


The lock is very simple, using a small delicate key, and does not allow easily use a separate padlock.


Security is not good. The lock can be picked with a twisted paperclip. I have seen some photos where a chain is run from a pa piercing and locked at the other end to a ring on the cock ring. There is also a Houdini harnesse, which one can buy, which supposedly makes the device more secure. But this adds to the complexity and the cost.

A major problem is that this device will rust if you take it into the shower. For this it is not suitable for long-term chastity programs.

The cuff part that goes around the balls can pinch. Be careful not to trap the loose skin of the ball sac skin in the teeth of the ratchet!

No ventilation slots makes this an unhygienic device in longer term programs.

Not easy to keep clean.

I found some lesions and bruising when I removed the cage.

I found the device uncomfortable to wear because, being uncut, the penis head protrudes through the end of the tube and the edge of the tube, which can be rough. Rubs on the glans. Might be ok with lots of lube and for circumcized cocks.


This review is provided for informational and recreational purposes only, no warranty is provided as to the suitability of the device for any particular use, accuracy, nor for  any opinions expressed. Purchasers of this device are advised to conduct their own research and make appropriate inquiries.

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The Birdlocked Chastity Device

This is a review on the Birdlocked chastity device by me and, of course, some boys I have had in it.


The Birlocked is a surgical silicone chastity device, with a variety of 6 different designs. Classic, mini (lol), maxi (oh, yes), pico (with small silicone spikes, ouch) pa model for pierced, and neo. Most order the classic, which can be a bad choice. Go to their site and look at the variety. It has expanded since the classic came out.


I had a real time boy whom I was training awhile back. The classic was a disaster because no matter how much I drained his balls, the classic would not fit over his big balls. It was a waste of money, and it was against my better judgement to buy this device. The boy owned a gym and was athletic. The Birdlocked is for athletic males because if it fits correctly, the device allows for maximum comfort in the gym.


Recently “r” had to remove his Birdlocked device because the ring was so tight, there was ball pain. “r” is a soccer player from Europe and is on the field at least 4 times a week. Not only was there ball pain, but there were abrasions to deal with, and had to go off of my program for awhile.


If anyone out there has had good experiences with a Birdlocked, please comment. I’m curious to find out how the other selections have worked out. If it comes down to a choice of a cb device and a birdlocked, the cb wins out.

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