Chastity and Relationships

chastity and relationships
chastity and relationships

Hello my locked ones. I have all kinds of chastity pets who are single, married, or in a relationship. These are situations beyond my control, and always a consideration. My married pets know that when wifey taps, you answer and the chastity program goes on hold. Relationships are tricky anyway, and throw in a kink like chastity, it just complicates it. So it’s important when you consider a chastity program in regards to chastity and relationships.

Talk about it

I know many of my locked ones practice chastity in secret. Sounds impossible, I know, but they do it! The fear is that if they discuss it with their wife or significant other, they will look at them differently and think they are freaks.  Which you are, but in a freaky fetish cool kind of way.

Honesty can be the best policy. When you communicate it can be the 1st step in helping your wife understand your desire for chastity. Be prepared for a ton of questions, like what is it and why are you locked in chastity.

Just tell her the truth and be calm. Before you have this conversation, make sure you know the answers to these questions! It will be chastity from the male perspective, but it will help explain your attraction to it.

I actually think it’s a positive. It promises you are not fucking around, and you are not constantly jacking off! It gives a lot of control to your partner if you can help her see that. If she’s not interested, at least you have been honest. And you still have me!


Chastity Orgasms

orgasms and chastity
chastity orgasms

Hello my locked ones. This may seem like the unthinkable for a blog post, let alone a chastity program. But I do believe in rewarding those who work hard and have proven themselves. I know I often tease my long term chastity callers with the promise of being locked up forever. I believe that can happen, but they may also be allowed an orgasm along the way. Every situation and program is different, but I see nothing wrong with being in chastity and orgasms rewarded every once in a while.

Good for you!

This is meant as in “good for you”, as in a pat on the back. Butt also good for you, as far as an orgasm is good for the health of your cock. So that is why I strongly recommend milkings every so many months. That helps to ensure a healthy prostate.

So recently I had a chastity pet who has not had an orgasm since March. That doesn’t seem like a long time, but it was March of 2015!!!! That is impressive, isnt it?! Hell yes! Now this particular pet does not really respond well to milkings, so I thought it was about time to take matters into my own hands and give this deserving pet a well earned orgasm!

So even though I am a chastity Mistress, I still can enjoy allowing an orgasm! Especially when it’s been over a year, in nice long term denial because after all, chastity makes the heart grow fonder!

Good job, rogue! And well deserved! Very Impressive!

Now void!
Now void!

Now you’ll just have to wait another year to have that

screaming orgasm! It’s not exactly forever, but I can live with

you will be in chastity forever and granted an orgasm once a

year! Maybe more with good behavior? NAH

Long Term Chastity by Misstress Meredith



Hello my pets,  my locked cocks! Some of my wanna be’s  are curious about how long they can expect to be in Chastity. I myself like the answer “forever” but I know that we need to be more realistic. But I am a chastity Mistress, and Queen of long term chastity! I will design a program just for you, and in the beginning it will seem like baby steps. The reason being, before locking you in chastity for more than a few hours, you need to be accustomed to wearing a chastity device, there needs to be a breaking in period.

Break it in

I mean, you can’t expect to put on a device for the first time and discover a perfect comfortable fit. It takes a while to adjust, both physically and mentally. Wearing it a few hours each evening when home from work is a good way to become accustomed to wearing a chastity device. As your chastity Mistress I will temper the excitement of fantasy with the necessities of reality.

When you are starting out with male chastity it’s good to have a step up program. I think telling you that you’ll be locked for 6 months is just too much and overwhelming. It makes the goal seem impossible, therefore the possibility of quitting is great. But I believe it is good to talk about other locked cocks who are doing very well after months and months of denial. It proves long term chastity is not just a myth.

How long can you go?

I have callers who have made it a year without an orgasm! Some even longer! Now, this does not mean we don’t allow milkings because that, my locked ones, is a necessity for the long term health of long term orgasm denial. So, this Mistress guides your stroking and schedules periodic milkings. This allows you to feel confident that you can remain in your cage as long as possible.

Like, you know…FOREVER


Why does chastity excite me?

Why does chastity excite me
Why does chastity excite me

Recently a caller asked me “just what about chastity excites you?” and I answered without hesitation “The control”. The idea that I hold your desires in my hand, which I can lock or unlock with the key. The concept of withholding orgasms as a show of devotion to your chastity Mistress is the ultimate gift. Who would not relish that power? Of course that excites me!

Chivalry is Dead

As far as archaic thoughts of the knight riding off with key in hand as his fair maiden waits in the castle for his return. ~snap out of that!~ No, chastity now is much more modern, efficient and sexy. Especially when it’s the Mistress (replacing the fair maiden) locking up the main cock.


Stop looking at my picture and focus on what I am about to say. When you are in chastity, you are much more focused. The thought off stroking all the time has been redirected elsewhere, like pleasing your Mistress. you are no longer consumed with your cock since access is denied.

Pussy Pleasure

One of my very favorite reasons to be excited about chastity. Imagine you are all locked up and I send you right between my legs. BUT you are not allowed to get hard.

That’s right… this is not about you. It’s about me. It forces you to completely get lost in my pussy. I have your undivided attention. No thought about your hard cock, wanting to stroke it and cum. Nope. This is about your tongue caressing every fold, every soft petal and demonstrating just how well you know and love your chastity Mistress.

Now you know why chastity excites me. Are you ready for lock up?

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Chastity Fascination

Chastity- long term chastity

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That is a very good question, my locked cock pets! How long can you stay in chastity? you can stay in chastity FOREVER as far as I’m concerned. In fact, I would prefer that. I am all about long term chastity and have several locked cocks to prove it. But the health of your prostate is a top concern and needs to be emptied, or “milked” to keep it healthy. So if you have any doubts, you need to educate yourself and be aware of all that is involved.

What is milking?

This is when you have gone several months without an orgasm (well done, chastity pet!) but your balls are full of it. So, we enter with a tool, usually the anerous, and massage the prostate. This way you do not have to worry about remaining true in your chastity, because you won’t have an actual orgasm. It’s more like a milky discharge after some massaging. Hence the term “milking”.  And you won’t have that orgasmic feeling, but you will feel a bit clearer and like it has taken the edge off, at least as much as can be for a chastity pet.

I like to do this about every 4-5 months, depending on the pet and his attitude. It is a necessary activity when you are in long term chastity. I have some pets who have been locked for years. Now, I am a chastity Mistress who allows pets out to stroke. But that is only with permission, and usually only while in session with me.

If you’re lucky…

you might even be granted the obligatory birthday or xmas orgasm. Please notice I said “might”. Just because those dates are on the calendar does not guarantee I will gift you like that! So I wouldn’t count on it, my pet. Especially when you are a chastity pet. After all , chastity training and orgasm denial go hand in hand.

Are you ready to lock your cock?